When I was young, I was into crystals, their meanings and powers of healing. I understood our late dad's 'healing' energy and his 'light work to help others, it all intrigued me. I was also into dowsing, and every Sunday night I would sit on Sunita's bed and she would read my Tarot cards for me. Over time, certain people controlled me, expected me to be a 'people pleaser' at their beckoned call. and if I refused to adhere to it, there would be hell to pay. From then I attracted toxic people and bullying in the workplace. I was a threat to them. I did address this and win, but it also made me ill not to mentioned so stressed, I had to take time off work.
Over time, I lost my crystals and from then on, this led me down a path where I started to have a 'scarcity' mindset all the time. My self-confidence and self-acceptance diminished. I also believed what my parent's would say about money and how you would have to work hard to get it. It also got to a point I was too fearful to buy things, wondering where the next penny was coming from. I also attracted toxic relationships. I never realised I would attract 'like for like', I never knew there was such a thing as The Law of Attraction!
In 2011 my twin sister mentioned the Law of Attraction. At that time I was in a toxic environment and I had been in the last few years, nothing was changing and I couldn't see a way out. I started to read up on it, and I started to believe in myself and what I could achieve. It took me a while to get my head around it. There were opportunities to change my circumstances, but I kept stepping back in fear! Within that time, I found I was perimenopausal, and I was struggling. I needed to find a way of managing my symptoms, my G.P. was rubbish so I had to research everything about the menopause. A few years later I qualified in 'Women in 3rd age' and 'Hysterectomy health.
In 2012, we lost our dear Daddakins. A part of me expected it and the other part of me didn't. I realised it was so important to live a healthy lifestyle, yet there were so many questions on why? I lost faith in source, everything was unfair. Why did this happen, why did he go? Could we have saved him? With time, support and implementing a spiritual wellness' routine, I got through it.
Finally in 2016 I broke free from a toxic person and environment. It was scary but freeing at the same time. The time in-between, I felt I had lost my identity and purpose. I would visualise myself getting out of the situation. I also manifested a place to live. When I did move, our business soared, my energy had changed, and I also found all my crystals and they found me! On top of that I had to declutter a decade of my life in 4 days, and from then on I kept on decluttering every few months, I found it therapeutic therefore harmonising my heart and home each time I moved or needed to make space, hence why I went into it professionally later on and incorporated dowsing and Feng Shui.
I qualified as a Meditation Host. I went through an Akashic Records meditation session. I found my soul names. I had two more house moves and I kept manifesting a better place to live. I accumulated more money, more opportunities. I started to coach women who had gone through the same thing. I continued to use Yoga and meditation within my own daily practise and teach others. As I work with the moon (La Luna) and nature's energy, I'm also known as a 'Sea Witch'.
In 2018 I got my new found identity and purpose. I chose one of my soul name's for my surname. I had no attachment to anyone, no-one could control me and I could be my authentic self!
In 2020 I self-published my book 'Life, Love & Libido's on Amazon. This book covers five real-life scenarios I had been through. I'm sure women around the world had also done so too and still are. For example, toxic relationships, a couple coping with the menopause, self-discovery etc. In 2021 I created my"How to Attract Abundance and Prosperity using The Law of Attraction" course.
L&L Anita, x
Dip.psysextherapy MOC, MSFTR.
I believe that my mindset, vision, thoughts and belief, alongside the love for change and creative innovation led me along my lifepath to where and who I serve today.
I had an eventful childhood, even now and so may it continue. At the age of 8, I was already seeing flashes of light and colours around various objects and people. I wasn’t able to express this to anyone, apart from my twin sister, Anita as I knew that she would understand. As I was growing up, things got easier. Our ‘late’ dad, would give us books, some second hand, yet this opened us up to the other side of what is possible. Age 13, I learnt about psychology, dreams, symbols, phrenology, numerology, colours and chakras, archetypes and it ended up with Carl Jung being my all-time favourite psychologist.
During my early 20’s, I would look in the mirror and say out loud, “When I get married, I want to have built in wardrobes. I want to fit all my footwear and clothes in them. I want to live in comfort, I don't want a mortgage, I want to travel to different places, and have a lovely husband who wears cosy jumpers, ha-ha.
I already gained my college BTEC qualifications in Fashion and Textile design and also a HND in Printing Studies. I wanted to pursue fashion and styling after not being able to accept jobs away from home due to mother saying 'no', I even won an award, but that wasn't a good enough reason for her and therefore I continued to search for a local job. I had to go back to college during the evening and at weekends, but knew that it was going to cost me, or was it?
I continued to pursue the dream of becoming a Colour Consultant and this progressed into gaining qualifications in the entire beauty and holistic arena. However, unemployed at the time, I didn’t think about the costs or even know how I was going to pay for it.
I soon found out that being on the dole as unemployed but still job seeking had enabled me to continue with my passion. I received the courses either for FREE or for £10 - this was not knowingly a blessing in the right direction of my life path.
I got involved with making ‘love potions’ by using my Aromatherapy qualification. The potions brought love to various friends and people. With my understanding of spells as a ‘White Witch’, I soon became a Sorceress, writing my own manifestation spells with the magic of the sun and mother moon and they are in my book AWAKEN THE AURA.
I remember when I was down to my last penny or pound, I took a risk on the lottery and won a lovely sum of money, I felt amazing! I stood on the doorstep of our family home and told Anita that we would run our own business together in the future. She laughed at me, but unbeknown to me, the universe was at work. During that time, so many opportunities arose in the world of fashion and make-up. It was amazing and I got my friends involved in the fashion parties as I love sharing the experience of a 'great time'!!
I managed to gain a job and started straight after my interview in the HR dept, yes, that was quick and I also gained opportunities to further my health and wellness career during the evening and at weekends, but you know the saying, when it's quiet, the universe has a plan and when that bubble gets bigger, it's gonna pop and your life is gonna go crazy with opportunities and changes.
I also started reaching out to doctors and found so many people having issues with continuous pain in their body, but this wasn't diagnosed as an invisible disability, in fact docs never knew what this was. I would provide massage therapy for my clients to relieve some of the pain. Today, it's recognised as an autoimmune dis-ease called 'Fibromyalgia.
In my late 20’s, I ended up going out with a lovely guy who wore jumpers. Three years later, we got married and yes, the house had built in wardrobes to fit all my clothing and footwear. Everything I said came to life, so how could this be? But health-wise during my late 20's, early 30's, my body was going through its own trauma. So I was trying to balance the good and the not so good. Somehow I had to 'bounce back' with a smile on my face and not get overwhelmed. I found out I had two forms of Autoimmune dis-ease, psoriasis was the first. I then also found it hard to shift the weight no matter what and encountering a 'phantom pregnancy'. My psoriasis took ages to clear up after trying so many things and water was the best soother of all. However, my doctor found me a gel which worked wonders on my arms and my legs which were the worst and most affected. I now keep psoriasis from forming by not stressing and by using virgin coconut oil to moisturise. I also encountered depression in 2004, after I got married, my late father in law passed away from pancreatic cancer and liver metastasis, it was a truly tough time! And a few years later came the diagnosis for Hypothyroidism. I found that talking was the best thing and I became a Counsellor in 2006, then later on a Psychodynamic Psychotherapist dealing with childhood/trauma and I also became an 'Art for a therapy' therapist.
Over time, my health was getting better and I was on the lowest dose of meds. I have been able to maintain the dose level through the lifestyle I have lead since then. I also enjoy being a solution finder, in life, we can choose to find 'the gold' or dwell on the problem -right?
At the age of 30, I was comfortable, mortgage free and even when made redundant from my job as a Web developer in 2005, it never worried me. I sorted out the marital home, decorated, worked as a temp and got the conservatory done which came in very handy! After working several jobs, there was one where I gained five pay increases in a year and a promotion. One day, I looked to the universe and expressed the desire of wanting to have a business with my twin sister. I let the magic go to work – and again, I had no idea of the law of attraction until 2011. Aged 35, Anita and I started our business in health and wellness. And oh boy, the conservatory played its part and became our salon. It was the right dimension, so it was all good and then my twin came on board soon after as I couldn’t do everything by myself. We still laugh about the day when I said that we would run a business together. At that time, we would follow each other into the same companies but in different departments. Something was definitely brewing.
In early 2016, I found a lump in my breast tissue and saw the docs and got referred to the oncologist at the breast screening centre. It was a weird time, but I, thankfully radiate positive energy and a high vibration and I was also working with doctor's patients during this time, the three full days of being ill laying in bed unable to do anything did not affect my timings or days at the surgery helping others nor my fitness instructing classes, phew! My key job was to reduce docs patients medication or even have them stop taking it safely and I provided an array of therapies, counselling, life coaching, solution finding, Rapid Neurofascial Reset therapy, massage therapy and so forth. A holistic rather than clinical approach was requested which is how I work unconventionally as life isn't 'one size fits all'.
Anyhow, the Oncologists found something else, but also told me to ensure that nothing confrontational occur in my life, basically be 'stress free' and of course I implemented this. I also was peri-menopausal, and now menopausal - gosh, what a journey! I'm knackered just writing this, haha. I believe that the end is only ever the beginning and the cycle continues whilst we find solutions on our life's journey.
L&L Sunita x
FFHT. MICHT. MIFHB. BSYA (Col.) R-NFR(S). Dip AH. CH.
"Holistically taking care of you physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually."